I just had a paypal dispute opened up on me today for a purchase that was made less than a month ago (I sent it a couple days after) and I'm really upset about it. First the buyer never once tried to contact me, through emai nor through livejournal, so they didn't even give me a chance to resolve the issue. Next the didn't purchase insurance. I'm a pretty honest and understanding person and I could have worked this out, without going through paypal. Though now that it has been escalated this far, I just gave a refund. I'll never sell to this person because the whole thing sounds suspicous. What you done if you were in my shoes?